Mary Scott-Everett

Mary Ruth “Cookie” Scott Everett, age 81, passed peacefully on Dec. 20, 2025, surrounded by the love and comfort of her family. She left this world just as she lived in it — held close by those she cherished most.

Mary was the beloved mother of her son, Dale M. Desmond of Hopkinton; her daughters, Carlena “Nina” Grinder and husband Stephen of Douglas, and Veronica Ivy Murtagh and husband Christopher of Truro. She was a devoted and deeply proud grandmother to Edward Marcus Hayes, Dylan Joseph Hayes, Brittany Mary Furlong and husband Teddy, Brandon Michael Hayes, and Samantha Huguette Faucher. One of life’s most tender moments came when Mary’s first and only great-grandchild, Lucas Edward Furlong, was born just one day after her passing — a bittersweet blessing she would have embraced with immeasurable love.

Born on Aug. 27, 1944, and raised in the Roxbury neighborhood of Boston, Mary was one of 14 children born to Wilfred Scott and Rosa N. (Myrick) Scott, both of whom predeceased her. She also was predeceased by siblings Wilfred, Robert, Rosemary, Raymond, Winifred, James, Grace, Elizabeth, Lawrence and Roger. She is survived by brothers Richard Scott, David Scott and Bradley Scott, along with many nieces, nephews, great-nieces and great-nephews who brought her great joy and affection throughout her life.

From an early age, Mary’s creativity shone brightly. As a young woman, she worked as a fashion designer, sewing and producing fashion shows throughout the Springfield area. Later, she made her home in Hopkinton, where she devoted herself to raising her family and creating a warm, welcoming home — one that became the backdrop for countless gatherings filled with laughter, good food and lasting memories. Friends and family alike remember her home as a place where everyone felt welcome.

In 1985, Mary married the love of her life, Ronald Everett. Their marriage was marked by deep love, joy and partnership, lasting 20 beautiful years until Ronnie’s passing in 2005. While raising her family, Mary also returned to school, fulfilling a lifelong dream by earning a degree in media and communications from Worcester State University in 1987 — an accomplishment she spoke of with great pride. She later earned her real estate license and worked for several years as a realtor.

Mary will be remembered for her warmth, loyalty and unwavering optimism. She loved music in all its forms, had a deep appreciation for history and was known as an exceptional cook. Her quick wit and wonderful sense of humor made people feel instantly at ease, and her laughter was a gift to those around her. She treasured time spent with friends and family and had a special passion for antiquing, delighting in finding beauty and meaning in unexpected places.

Above all else, Mary’s greatest joy was her family — especially her grandchildren, of whom she was endlessly proud. Her love for them was deep, constant and unconditional, and it was returned to her many times over.

Mary leaves behind a space that can never truly be filled, but also a legacy of love, resilience, creativity and kindness that will live on through all who knew her. She is deeply missed and forever lovingly remembered.

A church service will be held Jan. 10 at 1 p.m. at St. Andrew’s Episcopal Church, 3 Maple Street, Framingham, followed by a celebration of Mary’s life at 2:30 p.m. at the Woodville Rod & Gun Club, 252 Wood Street, Hopkinton.

A private burial will take place at the National Cemetery in Bourne, where Mary will be laid to rest beside the love of her life, Ronald.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a 529 plan established in Mary’s name for her great-grandson, Lucas Edward Furlong.

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