Pamela J. (Mangan) Boulter, 71, of Hampstead, New Hampshire, passed away at her home on Nov. 25, 2025, surrounded by her loving family. She was the beloved wife of Robert Boulter, with whom she shared 53 amazing years of marriage.

Born in Framingham on July 5, 1954, Pam was the daughter of the late Robert and Theresa (Bushey) Mangan. She was raised and educated in Hopkinton and graduated from Hopkinton High School in 1972.

Pam’s life was deeply rooted in her Catholic faith, which guided every aspect of her life. She shared her faith through kindness, compassion and an unwavering trust in God’s plan. Pam served as a CCD teacher at St. Anne Parish in Hampstead, volunteered at St. Thomas Aquinas School in Derry, New Hampshire, and worked alongside the Little Sisters of St. Francis in Danville, New Hampshire. She also served as a Eucharistic minister and dedicated her life to helping those in need. Pam was known for her unwavering faith and her ability to find God’s grace in everyday moments. Her life was a shining example of love, compassion and service to others.

Pam loved the outdoors and embraced every opportunity to explore nature. She was an avid hiker who conquered nearly every trail in the Presidential Range. She enjoyed camping, especially at Dolly Copp, where she would gather large groups of friends and family. She also enjoyed mountain biking, especially around Acadia National Park in Maine. Pam was also a member of the Hampstead Garden Club, spending countless hours cultivating gardens throughout town to bring joy to others through the beauty of flowers.

Pam’s love of travel was boundless, and she delighted in exploring the diverse landscapes, cultures and history across North America. Whether journeying by car, hiking scenic trails or discovering hidden gems in bustling cities and quiet towns, Pam embraced every adventure with enthusiasm. She had a particular fondness for trains, especially dinner trains, where she and Bob would savor the experience of sharing a meal while watching the world pass by. Together, they made the most of every moment, seeking out new places and creating cherished memories wherever they went. Known as the family’s travel expert, Pam often was consulted for vacation ideas, and the next thing you knew she had an entire itinerary planned for you, and it was always spot-on.

Pam deeply cherished every moment she spent with her family and friends. Her love for cooking was evident in the joy she found in preparing meals and hosting memorable gatherings, from festive family celebrations to summer cookouts. She was the most amazing, devoted and loving wife, mother, grandmother, sister and friend — truly the heart of her family. Pam’s warmth, kindness and vibrant spirit brought happiness and light to everyone who was fortunate enough to know her. Her generosity knew no bounds; she always was the first to lend a helping hand and offer words of comfort. Pam’s sense of humor could brighten even the darkest day, and her laughter was a gift to all who heard it. Through life’s challenges, she showed remarkable resilience and grace, inspiring those around her with her strength and unwavering love for God, family and friends. Her legacy of love, laughter and compassion will live on in the hearts of her family and all who were blessed to know her.

Pam is survived by her husband of 53 years, Robert; her children, Robert Boulter Jr. and wife Deirdre of Hampstead, James Boulter and wife Jessica of Nantucket, Thomas Boulter and wife Deirdre of Nottingham, New Hampshire, and Sarah Proulx and husband Michael of Hampstead; her 14 grandchildren; and her siblings, Robert Mangan and wife Cindy, and Patricia Lepicier and husband Leo. She was predeceased by siblings Frank Mangan and Nancy Robson.

Family and friends are invited to attend calling hours on Tuesday, Dec. 2, from 4-7 p.m. at Brookside Chapel & Funeral Home, 116 Main Street, Plaistow, New Hampshire. Her funeral will begin on Wednesday, Dec. 3, at 9:45 a.m. at the funeral home, followed by a funeral Mass at 11 a.m. at St. Matthew Catholic Church, 2 Searles Road, Windham, New Hampshire. Interment will follow in West Hampstead Cemetery, Hampstead, New Hampshire.

Memorial donations may be made to Catholic Charities New Hampshire at cc-nh.org.

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